Here in My Safe Little Place

graphite drawingComfort and security, that’s what I want. And I think I’m hardly unusual in that urge. Aside from the rare adrenaline junkies whose craving for danger and life on the edge knows no bounds, most of us like to have at least one place in life, on earth or in mind where we can crawl in, curl up and feel like nothing and no one can assail us there.

While I adore travel and I treasure those people and experiences and grand-and-glorious places that it has brought to my acquaintance, there’s at least a small part of me that may always be leaning toward Home. I don’t think of myself as an adventurer by any means at all, but I’ve grown a bit more attracted to the happy mysteries of the unfamiliar or even the exotic as I’ve gotten older, and I can appreciate much better how much wealth and delight the new and unexpected can often bring into my purview. Now, what I must keep in mind instead of a constant combat against my natural urge to shun all movement outward from my safe, soft center is that my concept of that person-place-or-thing identifiable as Home has changed, and can change, and certainly will change, because that’s exactly the sort of surprising flexibility that an even minimally worldly human can experience, once the crying need for total security is breached satisfactorily.

So here goes: once more I shall leap outward in hope and expectant happiness, and all at the same time remain busily, constantly honing the cozy little hideaway that will shelter my spirit and, if need be, my self when the adventures get a little overwhelming. With a cheery wave, when I’m not too tightly coiled up with my security blanket there, I shall ever bid you all a fond goodbye, farewell, and goodnight–and see you in the morning.

6 thoughts on “Here in My Safe Little Place

  1. I think the key is ‘creating’ that place of safety within us … and a particular physical location, like our home, can help us to relax there, and that is so important to our mind, body and spirit health. Saying that, our imaginations can offer a place of safety within adventure, unlimited adventure. I love your drawing of embryonic security!

    • Absolutely right, Diane. Just as with so many other aspects of our contentment or lack thereof, we can *choose* to feel secure or insecure and how and where that happens. Glad you like the drawing–I find young children and infants among the hardest subjects to draw, so I’m glad when one of my sketches seems to catch a bit of what I’m attempting to convey.

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